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THE CHRISTIAN GRACES - BROTHERLY KINDNESS

Text: 2 Peter 1:5-11.
  I. Brotherly kindness is the sixth quality that is to be 
     supplied in our faith.
 II. The Greek word for brotherly kindness is familiar to 
     all - "Philadelphia" - actually means "Love of the 
     brethren" - same word in 1 Peter 1:22 and Romans 
     12:10.
III. Love of the brethren, then, is the subject of our 
     thoughts in this lesson.
Body:
  I. Our passage implies that love of the brethren is not 
     an automatic response.
     A. "Giving all diligence"; "He that lacketh these 
        things…"; "Wherefore the rather, brethren, give 
        diligence."
     B. Might seem strange to us - seems like if I become a 
        Christian, I would automatically love everybody 
        else who is a Christian.
     C. But obviously not the case: This is one of those 
        qualities that must be supplied in our faith with 
        diligence.
     D. Which raises the question, "But why would love of 
        the brethren not be an automatic response?  What 
        are the difficulties to be overcome?"
 II. Love of the brethren is severely tested by the major 
     differences that exist among Christians.
     A. Different ages - Major difference in thinking 
        between those under 30 and those over 30; between 
        those who have no remembrance of the depression and 
        those who suffered hardship - These differences may 
        lead to major resentment.
     B. Different economic status.
     C. Different educational background.
     D. Different religious background.  Some brought up in 
        denominations; others by Christian parents.  Some 
        brought up in the strictest manner; others allowed 
        to do almost anything.
     E. Different personalities.  One talkative; another 
        reserved.  One impetuous; another very deliberate 
        and slow to act.  One person witty, loves a good 
        laugh; another serious, rarely sees the humorous 
        side of life.
     F. Different levels of spiritual attainment - In 
        knowledge, in conviction, in conduct.  In every 
        church there is the weak and there are the strong.  
        It's difficult to love a person whom you consider 
        to be a threat or hindrance to the very thing you 
        are trying to accomplish.  Only way I know to 
        eliminate that possibility is to remove all weak 
        people from the congregation, and I'm not sure how 
        we would determine who to keep and whom to remove, 
        and besides, the Bible condemns that kind of 
        attitude in Romans 14, 15 and 1 Thessalonians 5:14. 
        (Obviously not referring to those who are willfully 
        immoral or trouble makers.).
     G. Different weakness.  And if you don't think you 
        have a weakness, you have a major one, self-
        righteousness - frequently these weaknesses bring 
        us to major conflicts with our brethren.
        1. Two men tend toward selfish ambition.  They may 
           recognize the problem and be working on it - but 
           while both have that tendency, it's going to be 
           hard to love one another as they ought.
        2. One man has problem with jealousy; another 
           naturally draws people to himself and everything 
           he attempts seems to be successful.
        3. One person is blunt, mercilessly straightforward 
           in everything he says; another is sensitive.
III. But while we have major differences, we also have 
     major things in common.
     A. We share a common faith.  2 Peter 1:1.  We might 
        have certain differences in our convictions built 
        upon different levels of spiritual attainment but 
        for the most part we believe the same things.
     B. We share common blessings in Christ.  2 Peter 1:3.  
        Same God who made Jesus alive, raised Him from the 
        dead, set Him at His own right hand…
     C. We share a common hope.  2 Peter 1:4.  Description 
        of heaven.  
     D. We share a love of God and that of His Son, Jesus 
        Christ.  We may at times feel left out in some of 
        the activities that go on; might feel that we don't 
        get attention we should - but one thing everyone of 
        us knows - "God loves me."  Hebrews 13:5-6
     E. We share a love for the Lord.  1 Peter 1:8
     F. We share a concern for lost people. We work for a 
        Common cause.
     G. We share common problems.  1 Peter 5:8  He is 
        really behind all our problems, discouragements, 
        heartaches, and we share these - "When we asunder 
        part, it gives us inward pain; But we shall still 
        be joined in heart, And hope to meet again." Blest 
        Be the Tie - 3rd stanza
 IV. How, then, is love of the brethren brought about?
     A. Be patient and longsuffering toward one another in 
        the differences that exist. Ephesians 4:1-3, 32; 
        Romans 14:1-5; 15:1-2
     B. Keep your eye on the similarities, rather than the 
        differences.
        1. Person who can only see the differences is not 
           likely to remain faithful very long.
        2. He certainly will have a difficult time loving 
           his brethren.
     C. Do things together.
     D. Recognize the necessity of it.
        1. Somehow we do what we have to do - and when I 
           recognize that I have no choice but to love my 
           brethren, somehow I will find a way.
        2. The necessity seen in this passage (text).
        3. 1 John 4:7, 8, 10, 11, 20, 21.
        4. John 13:34-35.
  V. Warning: Love of the brethren and patience toward one 
     another in our differences as we struggle together in 
     service to the Lord does not mean that we are to 
     ignore sin, division, and doctrinal error.  2 Timothy 
     4:2; Romans 16:17; 2 John 10; 1 Corinthians 5:11.
     A. This teaching is not contradictory to the principle 
        of love of the brethren; it is in keeping with it.
     B. Love demands that we take necessary steps to warn 
        the sinner as well as to keep the church pure. 
        Galatians 6:1-2
Conclusion: We will conclude with these suggestions concerning our love for one another.
  I. Love must be manifested. (Demonstrated) 1 John 3:18
 II. Love must be communicated.  Are there people in this 
     church that feel no one cares for him or her, who need 
     re-assurance.
III. Love must be perpetuated. 1 Corinthians 13:8; Hebrews 
     13:1

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