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THE MORE EXCELLENT WAY – LOVE

Text: 1 Corinthians 12:31 – 13:13
Introduction:
  I. Definition of love – four words in the Greek.
     A. Eros – Not found in the New Testament.  It refers 
        to passion; the English word “erotic” is derived 
        from this Greek word.  It is a base word denoting a 
        passion which is selfishly seeking satisfaction; it 
        refers to sexual love.
     B. Stergein – Nor found in the New Testament – natural
        affection, it refers to the love, which a parent
        has for his children or any close relation has for 
        another.
     C. Phileo
        1. “to love; to be friendly to one…prompted by 
           sense and emotion.” Thayer
        2. “that phileo more nearly represents tender 
           affection.” Vine
        3. “love, have deep feeling for; love, like (to do
           or be something), kiss.” Newman
        4. Scriptures:
           a. Matthew 6:5
           b. Matthew 10:37
           c. John 5:20
           d. John 11:3, 36
           e. Titus 1:8
           f. 2 Peter 1:7; 1 Peter 1:22
           g. Titus 2:4
           h. 1 Timothy 6:10
     D. Agapao
        1. Verb:
           a. “to have a preference for, wish well to, 
              regard the welfare of.” Thayer
           b. “the love of reason, esteem.” Berry
           c. “to love (in a social or moral sense).” 
              Strong
        2. Noun:
           a. “affection, good-will, love, benevolence.” 
              Thayer
           b. “love, benevolence” Berry
           c. “love, i.e. affection or benevolence.” Strong
           d. “love (primarily of Christian love); concern,
              interest.” Newman
        3. This love is a love of will, we decide to 
           “love”…
        4. Scripture:
           a. John 3:16
           b. Matthew 22:37
           c. 1 John 4:19, 21; 5:1-2
           d. Romans 13:8-10; 12:9 (New American Standard)
           e. Matthew 5:44
           f. Luke 6:25-33
           g. Ephesians 5:25-33
           h. Colossians 3:19
           i. John 13:34; 15:12, 17
           j. Ephesians 4:2
           k. 1 John 2:10; 3:10-11, 14, 18, 23
        5. This is the love that is under consideration in 
           our text.
 II. The context of chapter 13.
     A. The Corinthians had a problem concerning spiritual
        gifts.
     B. They held the gift of speaking in tongues above all
        other spiritual gifts.
        1. The Corinthians were troubled by rivalry on 
           every hand including spiritual gifts.
        2. Probably; some were impatient, rude, jealous,
           arrogant, braggadocios.
        3. Also, the lack of love for each other.
     C. Paul devotes three chapters to this problem.
        1. All the spiritual gifts were important and have
           their place and function. Chapter 12
        2. Prophecy is more important than the gift of
           speaking in tongues and the use of spiritual
           gifts in the assembly. Chapter 14
        3. A way that is more excellent than any spiritual 
           gift.
        4. Read text.
III. Chapter 12:31
     A. Paul is not drawing a comparison between love and 
        gifts, but shows that it (love) is the only way in 
        which gifts can be made effectual in the highest 
        sense.
     B. Remember that in the context, Paul is talking about
        our attitudes toward and how we should treat our 
        brethren in Christ.
Body:
  I. Without love, everything is worthless.  13:1-3
     A. 13:1
        1. Tongues – languages.
        2. If a person had the ability to speak in the
           languages that men speak in or angels but do not 
           have love, this ability does not profit the 
           person any.
     B. 13:2
        1. Prophesy – making known God’s will by the 
           inspiration of the Holy Spirit.
        2. Understand all mysteries – the secret thoughts,
           plans, and dispensations of God, which are 
           hidden from the human reason and which must be 
           revealed by to man.
        3. Knowledge – the supernatural gift of knowledge.
           1 Corinthians 12:8
        4. These two are hypothetical, no one has ever had
           so complete knowledge.
        5. All faith – supernatural gift of faith. 1 
           Corinthians 12:8  He is using this as the
           supreme example of faith.
        6. If a person could be able to do all these
           things, but does not have love, it does not 
           profit anything.
     C. 13:3
        1. I bestow all my goods…
        2. I give my body to be burned.
        3. Both deeds mentioned are such as ordinarily are
           held to be the fruits of love, but they may be 
           done without it, and if so, are worthless.
 II. The main characteristics of love. 13:4-7
     A. “Having already shown the superiority of love by
        his hypothetical cases which demonstrate the utter 
        worthlessness of own who has a great gift but no 
        love, Paul turned to enumerate some of the 
        characteristics of love.  You will notice that Paul 
        uses verbs to designate what Christian love is like 
        indicating that Christian love is active.  The 
        special characteristics of love which Paul 
        enumerated are related to the faults of the 
        Corinthians and, particularly, to the faults 
        pertaining to the spiritual gifts.”
     B. “Paul does not describe love in its greatest works, 
        sacrifices, martyrdom, triumphs; he goes into the 
        ordinary circumstances of life as we meet them day 
        by day and shows us the picture of love as it must 
        be under these.”
     C. The characteristics:
        1. Love is patient.
           a. Basically – long-tempered.
           b. Used in LXX to described that characteristic 
              of God which prevented Him from suddenly 
              letting His wrath fall on Israel.  Exodus 
              34:6
           c. 2 Peter 3:9
           d. It describes the man who, having the power to
              avenge himself, yet refrains from the 
              exercise of this power.  It is that self-
              restraint which does not hastily retaliate a 
              wrong; it endures injures and evil deeds 
              without being provoked to anger or revenge.
           e. “In the Scriptures ‘longsuffering’ has to do
              with injurious persons and does not let their 
              ignorant, mean, or malicious actions arouse 
              the resentment and the anger which they 
              deserve.” Lenski
        2. And is kind.
           a. Love is not caustic or sharp-tongue; it is
              mellow and kind.  It mellows all which is 
              harsh…; harshness, roughness, and bitterness 
              are banished by love.
           b. When this evil strikes us, and our natural
              reaction would be resentment, indignation, 
              anger, bitter words, blows perhaps, then love 
              steps in, ‘suffers long’, keeps calm, 
              endures, and does this continually no matter 
              long the offense may persist.
           c. Some of the persons in Corinth were jealous
              of the other’s spiritual gifts; hence they 
              became bitter, hash, and caustic in their 
              treatment of each other.  Paul, therefore, 
              reminded that love is always kind. (present 
              tense – always kind).
           d. 2 Timothy 2:24; Romans 12:20.
        3. Is not jealous.
           a. that dishonorable envy of the good which
              appears in another which manifests itself by 
              berating or maligning the other person’s 
              good.
           b. Romans 13:13; James 3:14-16
           c. Galatians 5:20 (emulations – KJ)
           d. Acts 7:9; 17:5
        4. Does not brag.
           a. Emphasis is on boasting, which wounds others,
              causes unrest, and discord.
           b. Love doesn’t brag.  Apparently, some in
              Corinth were bragging about the particular 
              spiritual gift that they had and considered 
              themselves better than others because they 
              had it.
        5. Is not arrogant.
           a. Does not have an inflated concept of its own
              importance.
           b. this is the attitude.
        6. Does not act unbecomingly.
           a. Definition – to behave disgracefully,
              dishonorably, or indecently.
           b. Love is mannerly; it does not conduct itself
              in a way that is contrary to the accepted 
              standards of decency.
           c. “When pride puffs up the heart, unseemly
              bearing and conduct naturally follow, 
              tactlessness forgets its own place and fails 
              to accord to others their proper dues of 
              respect, honor, or consideration.  Love is 
              forgetful of self and thoughtful toward
              others.
           c. Apparently, some in Corinth were just plain
              rude toward others.
        7. Does not seek its own.
           a. Love does not insist upon its own rights; it
              is not selfish.
           b. It takes into consideration the wants and
              needs of others.
           c. “True love is always unselfish.”
           d. Romans 10:24; Philippians 2:4
        8. Is not provoked.
           a. Love is not irritated; it does not go around
              with a chip on its shoulder.
           b. The injuries which come to it are borne
              without bitterness or resentment; it does not 
              fly into fits of rages.
           c. “…is not embittered or enraged by abuse,
              wrong, insult, injury…Romans 12:14…Instead of 
              vicious outbursts (negative), he (Paul) 
              entertained good wishes and gave blessings 
              (positive).”
           d. Colossians 3:8; James 1:19-20
        9. Does not take into account…
           a. the idea is that love does not allow its mind
              to dwell on the offense which it has 
              incurred.
           b. To do this would be to allow bitterness and
              resentment to fill one’s life.
           c. Love will not allow that to happen.
           d. “It is neither enraged at the moment, nor
              does it hold a grudge in vindictiveness 
              afterward.
       10. Does not rejoice…
           a. Love cannot find pleasure in sin.  Anything
              that is wrong in God’s sight should grieve 
              the heart.
       11. But rejoices…
       12. Bears all things.
           a. That love is able to bear whatever
              afflictions or persecutions that come upon 
              it.
           b. “The figure has reference to enduring and
              quietly suffering inflictions.  Love never 
              complains that it is made to endure and to 
              suffer too much; its capacity for suffering 
              is very great.  Remember all that the Lord’s 
              love suffered.”
       13. Believes all things.
           a. When love has no evidence to the contrary, it
              believes the best about its fellowman.  It 
              refuses to yield itself to unfounded 
              suspicious and doubts; it grants the brother 
              the benefit of every doubt in believing the 
              very best he can about the object of love.
       14. Hopes all things
           a. When the evidence is conclusive that a man is 
              not to be trusted, love goes even further.  
              It hopes for the best in its fellowman even 
              when the evidence leads one to believe 
              otherwise.
           b. Hope knows no pessimism.
           c. It hopes for the best.
       15. Endures all things.
           a. The steadfastness with which the Christian
              contends against the various hindrances, 
              persecutions, and temptations that befall 
              him in his conflicts which life is able to 
              throw at him.
III. The permanence of love shows its superiority.  13:8-13
     A. “That which is perfect.”
        1. An understanding of what the word “perfect” will 
           help us to have a correct understanding of this 
           passage.
        2. TELEIOS (teleios)
           a. Vine: “signifies having reached its end,
              (telos), finished, complete, perfect.”
           b. Green: “brought to completion; fully
              accomplished, full developed…”
        3. This shows that the Pentecostal position that
           the word “perfect” refers to Jesus Christ is 
           wrong.
     B. “Love does not fail…” 13:8-10
        1. The superiority of love is shown by the fact it
           shall never cease to exist where as the 
           spiritual gifts will cease.
        2. The spiritual gifts are to last until the
           prefect comes.
        3. The things in part must be of the same nature as
           the thing that is complete.
Partially full stomach Completely filled stomach
Partially full gas tank Completely filled gas tank
Partially full knowledge Completely filled knowledge

Not

Partially full stomach Completely filled gas tank
Partially full knowledge Completely filled second coming of Christ
     C. Spiritual gifts was for the infancy or childhood of
        the church. 13:11
     D. A comparison of James 1:23-25 and 1 Corinthians 
        13:12.
        1. Illustration of stepping out of the bathtub and 
           the mirror is steamed up.
        2. You can take the word of God and look into it
           and see:
           a. your true spiritual condition.
           b. you can know what to do to live a life that
              is pleasing to God.
     E. The greatest of these is love. 13:13
Conclusion:
  I. The main point of this passage is that love is greater
     than spiritual gifts because it will endure while they 
     will not.
 II. But in learning this let us learn the various lessons 
     of love which are given in this chapter.
III. We must learn them and apply them if we expect to go
     to heaven after a while.
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