THE CHRISTIAN’S LIFE

Text: Romans 12:3-21
Introduction: Paul in our text gives some good sound advice on how to conduct our lives in several different areas.
Body:
  I. Each for all and all for each. Romans 12:3-8
     A. “One of Paul’s favorite thoughts is to think of the 
        Christian church as a body (cp. 1 Corinthians 
        12:12-27).  The members of the body neither argue 
        with each other or envy each other or dispute about 
        their relative importance.  Each part of the body 
        carries out its own function, however, prominent or 
        however humbly unseen that function may be.  It was 
        Paul’s conviction that the Christian Church should 
        be like that.  Each member of the Christian church 
        has a task to do; and it is only each member 
        contributes the help of his or her own task that 
        the body of the Church functions as it ought to 
        function.” Barclay
     B. We need to know ourselves (verse 3)
        1. We do not get very far in this world without 
           knowing what we can and can’t do.
        2. “An honest assessment of one’s own capabilities, 
           without conceit and without false modesty, is 
           one of the first essentials of a useful life.” 
           Barclay
     C. We need to accept ourselves.
        1. We are not to envy someone else’s abilities, 
           etc.
        2. We need to accept ourselves for what we are and 
           need to use that gift that we have.
        3. Even if a Christian’s contribution will be 
           unseen and unknown, without praise, and without 
           prominence, he must make that contribution, 
           certain that it is essential, and that without 
           it life and the church can never be what they 
           were meant to be.
     D. Whatever gift we have, it came from God.
     E. We must use our gift and the motive must not be for 
        our own personal glory, but the conviction that it 
        is at one and the same time his bounden duty and 
        his God-given privilege to make his own 
        contribution to the common good.
     F. The particular gifts that Paul mentions:
        1. Prophecy – they received their message directly 
           from God (one of the spiritual gifts giving by 
           the laying on of the apostle’s hands.)
        2. Ministry (serving, NIV) – (Practical service) "It
           is service rendered to benefit others the rendering 
           of which one has the capability of doing.  If one can 
           offer such service, he should enter into it 
           voluntarily and enthusiastically to the full capacity 
           of his ability to do so as given to him by the grace 
           of God" (Hamilton)
        3. Teaching
        4. Exhorting (encouraging, NIV) - encouragement
        5. Giving
        6. Ruling (leads, NKJV; leadership) – Occupying a 
           leading place)
        7. Mercy
 II. The Christian life in everyday action (12:9-13).
     A. Love must be completely sincere.
     B. We must hate that which is evil and cling to that 
        which is good.
        1. Not enough to hate the consequences of evil.
     C. We must be affectionate to one another in brotherly 
        love.
        1. 2 Peter 1:5-7; 1 John
        2. We must love each other because we are members 
           of the same family.
     D. We must give each other priority in honor.
        1. An unwillingness to do this, has cause a lot of 
           trouble.
        2. The mark of a true Christian is humbleness.
     E. We are to be diligent, not lazy.
     F. We must keep our spirit at the boiling point 
        (Revelation 3:15-16).
     G. We must serve the Lord.
     H. We are to rejoice in hope.
        1. The Christian must be essentially an optimist.
        2. “There are no hopeless situations in life; there 
           are only men who have grown hopeless about 
           them.”
     I. We are to meet tribulation with triumphant 
        fortitude.
     J. We are to continue in prayer.
     K. We are to share with saints who are in need.
     L. We are to be given to hospitality.
III. The Christian and society in general (12:14-21).
     A. We are to bless them that persecute us.
        1. Read example from McGuggin p. 362.
        2. Example of Jesus and Stephen
     B. We are to rejoice with those who rejoice.
     C. We are to live in harmony with one another.
     D. We are to avoid all pride and all snobbishness.
        1. Self-promotion is contrary to the spirit of God.
        2. Don’t be afraid of being told to take the higher 
           seat but don’t despise a job thinking it is too 
           menial.
     E. We are to make our conduct fair for all to see.
     F. We are to live at peace with all men, but Paul adds 
        two qualifications.
        1. “If it is possible.”  If peace does not come 
           about, let it be because the other won’t permit 
           it.
        2. “As far as you can.”
        3. “Blessed are the peace-makers.”
     G. We are to keep ourselves from all thoughts of 
        taking revenge.  Three reasons:
        1. Vengeance does not belong to us; it belongs to 
           God.
        2. To treat a man with kindness rather than 
           vengeance is the way to move his heart.
           a. vengeance may break his spirit; but kindness 
              will break his heart. (There will be      
              exceptions)
        3. To stoop to vengeance is to be ourselves 
           conquered by evil.  Two choices.
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